This one is easy! I don’t know why so many news organization have so many bikini adds.Tabloids I understand use them to gain readership Most of these ads concentrate on the female body, breast, stomach, butt, and pubis not to mention claim to fame women from stars to models. What I find funny some of the side ads from swimsuit providers don’t have a heads on the bikini body. One size fits all. A daily mail article on thanksgiving and the stars writes about racy dancing and then shows three women who were related wiggling their butts in skin tight dresses. all three were equal in size in the picture. Reason not determined. What is thanksgiving about? Surely not Hollywood and there parties.

Daily Rants!

This is going to be a subdued rant, and I hope to do it daily.

A friend of mine recently said that another woman who she knew, no longer wanted to be friends with her. It is hard to fully understand what she was saying; being a man, I view friendship possibly differently than her.

I once teased a friend until his anger created a full-scale argument which ended up with each of us terminating our friendship. It was only through the efforts of our wives that we overcame the hostility that had been generated. We are now many years passed the foolishness of that day.

So back to the woman, she was deeply disturbed by the woman saying she no longer wanted to be her friend and could not figure out why the woman had chosen this time to express herself. Not only could she not determine why the woman wanted to end their friendship but what to do about the feelings that she now had to deal with.

The work rejection really doesn’t encapsulate all the feelings and thoughts that go through the mind as you try to determine how people think and why they are saying the things they do. If this problem was put into an ‘ask the expert’ column, one would get hundreds of letters from women expressing how they would handle the problem and what they think you need to do.

It is enough for a person to think clearly about what is being said and how they play into the problem. If for any reason they feel it is best to leave the problem alone and wait for the other party to come back and explain themselves. I could say don’t beat up on yourself or overstress something you don’t understand; but I know from my loving compassionate wife that women very often internalize things.